Okwangoku, izinga lokuncancisa kuphela leentsana ezingaphantsi kweenyanga ezintandathu ubudala eTshayina lisengaphantsi kwama-50% ekujoliswe kuko okubekwe ngurhulumente.Intengiso eqatha ekhubekisayo yezinto ezithatha indawo yobisi lwebele, ubuthathaka bokusebenza kolwazi olunxulumene nokuphuculwa kokuncancisa kunye nokungabikho kweenkonzo zokubonisana ezikumgangatho ophezulu zokuncancisa usana kusekho, zonke ezi zithintele uphuhliso lokuncancisa phakathi kwabasetyhini baseTshayina.
“Abantwana abaqhele iingono zikanina abayisebenzisi ibhotile, nabantwana abayiqhelileyoukutyisa ibhotilebala ukuncancisa iingono zikanina.Le nto ibizwa ngokuba 'kukubhideka kwengono'.Izizathu zokubhideka ubukhulu becala zibangelwa ziimvakalelo ezininzi ezahlukeneyo ezifana nobude, ukuthamba, imvakalelo, ukuphuma kobisi, amandla kunye nesantya sokuqukuqela kobisi lwebhotile kunye nengono emlonyeni wosana.Le ikwayeyona ngxaki inkulu oomama abaninzi abadibana nayo xa befuna ukubuyela kubisi lwebele.” UHu Yujuan wathi xa iintsana eziqhele ukutyisa iibhotile zityiswa ngoonina, iintsana ezininzi zixhathisa ngamandla, zimunca imilomo emibini kwaye zikhale ngaphandle komonde, kwaye ezinye iintsana zide ziqalise ukukhala xa zizibambe koonina.Oku akuyongxaki okanye impazamo.Abantwana bakwafuna inkqubo yenguqu kunye nexesha.Xa abantwana bechasa, kufuneka babe nomonde owaneleyo.
Ukusombulula ingxaki yokubuyela komntwana kuipro feed, kufuneka siqale kule miba ilandelayo:
1. Ukudityaniswa kwesikhumba: ayilulo unxibelelwano lwesikhumba phakathi kwempahla kunye neengxowa.Vumela umntwana ukuba aqhelane nencasa kunye neemvakalelo zikamama.Kubonakala kulula kwaye kunzima ukwenza.Kuthatha ixesha kunye nokuziqhelanisa.Ukutshintsha kobungakanani kunokuvelisa utshintsho olusemgangathweni.Kwintsilelo, kodwa kunye noxinzelelo lwabantu abajikelezayo, umama kulula ukuyeka.Umama unokuqalisa kunxibelelwano lwemihla ngemihla, ancokole kwaye athethe nosana lwakhe, alubambe kwaye ahlambe, kwaye atshintshele eluswini olunamathelana kunye.
2. Zama ukuhlala kwaye udle: ngokuqhelekileyo, xa umntwana esondliwe ngebhotile, umntwana uphantse ulele, kwaye ibhotile imile.Ngenxa yoxinzelelo, izinga lokuhamba liya kukhawuleza kakhulu, kwaye umntwana uya kuhlala eginya kwaye ngokukhawuleza adle.Oku kubangela ukuba umama azibuze ukuba ingaba sele etyile ixesha elide kwaye akoneli xa etyisa.Ngeli xesha, bamba umntwana ngokuthe nkqo kwaye unike inkxaso eyaneleyo kumqolo.Ibhotile kufuneka ihambelane nomhlaba.Usana kufuneka luncance ukuze lutye ubisi.Ifuna amandla athile.Kwangaxeshanye, ngexesha lokuncancisa ibhotile, nqumama phakathi kokuncanca nokuginya, vumela umntwana ukuba aphumle, kwaye ngokuthe ngcembe uxelele umntwana ukuba le yimeko yokondla okuqhelekileyo.
Ixesha lokuposa: Aug-12-2021